I don't think you meant it to sound like #notallchurches which is basically an invalidation of my experience. But you did. And I also don't need for you to hope that I find a church. I would rather hope that churches would become safe and loving places of connection and a reflection of Jesus and not the status quo. I would have written a similar comment back when I was still in church, so I get where you're coming from. But unless you've lived it, you don't get it.