And this is why we must agree to disagree. You can tell who a person is by what they do. That’s really the only way to tell who they are.
You can deal with your feelings about it, and forgive, and understand why they did it, and be compassionate, AND I HAVE.
But it’s imperative to recognize the damage they did.
I know people consider mothers to be a sacred topic. But they can be as toxic as anyone else.